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A baby can upset the balance
Having
a baby is usually a happy event, but it's also a major milestone
for both parents,
forcing changes on their lifestyle and their relationship.
Each of you may be tested to the limit - adjusting to the
new situation can often put a strain on your relationship.
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Research shows that many parents feel less satisfied with their
relationship after a baby, at least in the short-term. This isn't
surprising, since both partners are probably tired, anxious and
emotional - and they may be worried about things like money.
Becoming a parent can also trigger a host of
memories, some of which can be upsetting. For Louise, it was her
fear of being abandoned: "My dad left when my mum had me.
I worry that Dave will leave me too".
It may help to try and understand your
background experiences and what you expect of each other - feelings
we usually keep hidden can affect how we behave in relationships.
Understanding each other can help you to be more realistic and
prepared for the ups and downs of parenthood.
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